Letting Go

One of the most difficult things in life is to let go. Letting go of a person, a place, a relationship, a feeling. All that you're left with is a memory. And that memory is what makes letting go so difficult.

I feel that letting go of something is more difficult for someone who gets easily attached to things. You form a bond and then you don't want it to change. You fight to hold on.

But I guess, one should always remember, that nothing is constant. You are in a certain place today, surrounded by people who you may or may not like. Whatever the situation is, always remember that it will change. So make the best out of every situation. Never miss an opportunity to make a memory. After all, change is the only constant :)

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